Saturday, 27 August 2011

Meredith

It's about 10 months after I find out Lisa is actually a lesbian. I had moved on long ago but it still wasn't pleasant to think about. I mean, those 2 years of waiting could have been put to better use on someone who may have returned those feelings.

Like Brandon and Byran noted, the part where I may have gone wrong was getting in touch with an old friend from way back. Who knows what they're like now, they may not be the same person as they are today. You think I would have learned but Meredith, an old friend from Junior High got in touch with me.

And again and again.

Meredith was Caucasian, even shorter than Lisa with light brown hair that extended beyond her shoulders. Pale skin with freckles and green eyes. She loved to laugh, had a fiery personality and was passionate in whatever interested her at the moment and only that moment.

At first it was idle chit-chat and "How are you/your day" sort of conversations but eventually we ended up talking about her. She wasn't going through the greatest time of her life and I was there to to listen. Whether it be family, personal, trivial problems, it didn't matter, I was there.

And eventually she confessed that she had a crush on me since Junior High, and probably still did.

Naturally I was taken a bit by surprise.

Come on, who wouldn't fall for Younger Damian?

And obviously I began to consider things. Someone else initially interested in me? This could be interesting. Maybe this could work. And eventually I asked her out and we started dating. Life was good, I was going to get out of High School soon, I had a girlfriend who was interested in me, things were looking up.

She dumped me 3 days later.

No I'm serious, I log onto MSN and she was acting strangely before finally telling me it was over. Her friends didn't approve of me (because I wasn't part of their inner circle) and she didn't think her Grandma would approve of me either simply because I was Asian. So to make things easier she just broke up with me right there.

No, no she wasn't.

I took this rejection a lot better. Simply because I was more pissed off than upset. I remember thinking to myself "Screw it! I'll be single and I'll enjoy it." And I did, but only for 4 months until Theresa became an important part of my life and well, you know the rest.

55 comments:

  1. Man, I hope you are feeling okay! Rejections were always hard for me.

    Keep up the good posts about your life!
    +following

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  2. Man that sucks :( I have a friend who almost lost her girlfriend because her friends weren't too happy with her, and said a load of bad things about her, but the girlfriend was strong enough to realise it wasn't what they wanted, but what she wanted. Over time, some have come to accept her, others haven't, but they accept eachother. Still, it would have been nice for her to work all that out before saying yes, and possibly considered not doing it, rather than dumping you 3 days later. It's when you think "Screw it I'll be single and enjoy it" that the universe starts to think "Nah buddy, you sure as hell are not!" and someone comes along.

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  3. I got a female friend who is rumored to be a lesbian too. She is actually quite hot and I have to admit that I sometimes had dirty thoughts about her lol

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  4. I've been single for about 3 years or so now. I'm just starting to really enjoy it.

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  5. Been in the exact same position before, sigh.

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  6. Being there to listen puts you in the friend zone.

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  7. What a bitch. But at least it was only 3 days and not, you know, 4...

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  8. What things did you do together those three days?

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  9. I'm sorry to hear she's a lesbian; but as a wise man said: there are many fish in the sea. ;)

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  10. what doesn't you, just makes you stronger

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  11. Lol, she's weird, inner circle wtf? screw them all

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  12. Your romantic history is disturbing, but there are always worse things. Thank yourself that your ex-girlfriend isn't stalking you or sending you creepy emails. Let's pretend I DO NOT fall into that category.

    Lemons

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  13. Wow, that sounds pretty annoying. But hey, you didn't seem to bothered by it. Good for you!

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  14. I'm a stranger here and the only thing I can say: this is not the way it should has happened. Unfortunately, some things are taken by people not in the way, we take it.

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  15. Sorry to hear about this man. Rejection seriously sucks

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  16. Wow. Sounds like something out of a sitcom.
    Just try to enjoy life the best you can. Blogging is actually quite fun, it takes your mind out of a lot of things, and blogging about your personal life allows you to looka t it from another perspective.
    Keep it up!

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  17. Sux man. But, let me tell you, I was with my ex wife for 10 years. Age 15 to 25, married 4 of em and had 2 kids. Then, she decides she's a lesbian. Biggest let down ever. I know the pain.

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  18. Oh, and side note, for my blog with small text on some of the pics, you should be able to click them open and then enlarge em. Let me know if it doesn't work for some reason. Thanx.

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  19. Sheesh! I would have sprayed bleach on her wardrobe.

    Man, thank Buddha for Theresa!

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  20. I always imagined it would be easier to be dumped for a woman than for a man. :D

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  21. At least you bucked up well enough.

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  22. Oh crap, 3 days later is tough. Plus she is a little bitch, ditching you for being asian...wtf is that about? If she didn't want to be with an asian guy, she shouldn't have dated you in the first place.

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  23. I've never had a kiss from a girl OR girlfriend...at least you got farther than some people lol

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  24. well a person who would dump you because you're an Asian or Caucasian or Martian, is a person you don't really need in your life.

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  25. Sucks to hear, but sounds like you're taking it ok.

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  26. ...you waited TWO YEARS for a girl that was lesbian? God your life is depressing

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  27. I know chicks like that, steer away as much as I can

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  28. Wow that's really terrible.. At least you got to enjoy some time afterwards..

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  29. Relationships have never been my strong point; at least it's all working out for you now though, who knows, without the bad experiences, you may not have ended up in your current relationship :}

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  30. Sorry to hear about that. You're better off without someone like that in your life.

    Sometimes moving on to someone new is better. There's usually a reason things didn't work out or happen with the previous person.

    That's usually how it happens, you start to enjoy your single life and then 'boom' the right person comes along.

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  31. Aw, that really sucks. Terrible for her to give in to peer pressure. She should just pursue what she believes in, and not the "morals" of her friends.

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  32. tsk tsk, what a devil of a lady, but if it happened to me i would have done the same thing you did.

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  33. Happened to a friend, it's really weird :P

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  34. She didn't think her grandma would like you just because you're asian? What..

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  35. at least it turned out well

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  36. damn man. all i can say is... "women". pfft.

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  37. Seriously those reasons she gave you were weak indeed

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  38. Sorry to hear that, but at least you took it in stride.

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  39. Well at least you only wasted 3 days on her. It could have been worse.

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  40. Nice to see you found a new chick.

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  41. wow that sucks .-.
    Atleast 3 days are better than 2 years >.>
    and do you really wanna be with someone who dumps you for what they friends and grandma thinks?

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  42. we girls can be a little bit bitchy at times lol. but this girl was very contradictory - first she has a crush on you, than she dumps you. that's stupid.

    jos xx

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  43. You gotta forget about these lame chicks, and focus on you. Make money, workout, study, ect. Sharpen your yourself to be a lady killer!!! (not literally btw)

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  44. She is crazy. One of that person that cares too much what other people think.. Good for you that you didn't waste more time on her ;)

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  45. Glad to hear that something finally worked out for you.

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  46. Ouch, three days or not, the racist grandma excuse is pretty lame. Good riddance to her!

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  47. uh that's lame. more fish in the sea they say

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  48. Man, I hate it when life throws you these kind of curveballs.

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  49. Wow, she gave you some pretty lame excuses but at least the relationship wasn't too serious. Besides it sounds like Theresa is pretty amazing and you've moved on to a better relationship.

    erica
    seaofbloomingdreams.blogspot.com

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  50. supporting and agree with M Fawful, that has happened to me about 3 or 4 times

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  51. Did you at least get some action before she dumped you?

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