Monday, 28 January 2013

Not much to say

Thanks for the kind comments everyone. Much appreciated. I'll be honest, recovery from a breakup is going faster than I expected, or maybe slower, I'm not sure. I'm just trying to force myself out of this slump as soon as I can. I hate having emotions dictate any part of my life or decisions.

But it's not easy, I've never ended a serious relationship of this length before. As I've experienced the hard way, emotions tend to come in waves.

Like so.

I really don't have much to say, not that there is much to say. I'll be back to my normal self ideally by the end of the week. I just need a little more time.

For anyone else having a bad week or going through a rough patch, watch the video below. It's less than half a minute long but it makes me laugh everytime I see it. I'd love to pull this off one day, even though it's terribly immature and rude.


I'll see you guys on Thursday. I'll hopefully be feeling good enough to make a proper blog post.
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21 comments:

  1. Mark29 January 2013 at 01:38

    That video was a little rude and immature but it was also pretty funny. Not as good as the Sax Man but it was still pretty good. I think you're doing just fine. Or so it seems. You never found yourself stuck in a rut so you're not having too much trouble getting out of it. Just apply yourself to what you want to get done.

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  2. professional failure29 January 2013 at 03:41

    No worries buddy. Take some time. Take a break if you have to. Personal life > blogging.

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  3. Debra She Who Seeks29 January 2013 at 05:01

    There's a rule of thumb that recovery from a breakup takes one month for every year that you were in the relationship. So 4 years = 4 months needed to process the emotions after separating. Don't try to rush it or short-circuit it or the unprocessed emotions will be toxic in your next relationship(s).

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  4. Pat Hatt29 January 2013 at 06:41

    LMAO that would be so fuuny to do, but yeah very rude.

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  5. Fang29 January 2013 at 07:32

    Oh that is brilliant, very well played prank there. I hate those kind of parades, so I'll definitely pull something like that sometime!
    And yeah, stay on top of your feels man. Buy a surfboard if you need to.

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  6. Suzanne29 January 2013 at 08:06

    I am so sorry to hear about your breakup. Give yourself time to feel all the emotions you will feel then carry on. You will be fine.

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  7. Outcast29 January 2013 at 08:58

    This video is intense haha, I get such a laugh out of this despite it being rude like you say. I'm sorry to hear that this has all happened of course but at least you're holding up Damien, just keep your head up man.

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  8. Bodacious Boomer29 January 2013 at 10:29

    Oh young one, I feel for you. I wish I were there to somehow help you, even if it'd only be someone for you to laugh at my misadventures up close and personal.

    If there's an upside at all, perhaps it's that's by springtime you should be starting to feel a little better at least. The whole fresh star thing.

    Take care of yourself very well right now. Stress wallops your immunity.

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  9. Adam29 January 2013 at 10:31

    have a great rest of the week

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  10. Mich29 January 2013 at 10:42

    As cliche as it sounds, I think the only thing we can do in these situations is let yourself heal with time. :/
    I'm glad you're hanging in there. <3

    xoxo

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  11. Evelyne CulturEatz29 January 2013 at 11:54

    **hug**

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  12. Liz29 January 2013 at 14:28

    Damien! Watch this video!

    I promise it isn't spam.... http://youtu.be/l-gQLqv9f4o

    Also, sadly no, I won't be able to publish it on my blog... but you can always add me on facebook if you want to! (if you don't want to, that's totally cool as well)

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  13. SM30 January 2013 at 12:44

    thanks for video
    made me smile
    good luck

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  14. Golden Eagle30 January 2013 at 15:42

    I missed your last post--I'm sorry to hear you broke up with Theresa. :(

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  15. Bart30 January 2013 at 16:44

    didn't even know you were in a relationship. lets go to the rippers!

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  16. Jimmy Fungus30 January 2013 at 22:28

    Whoa, miss a little, miss a lot. Seems a lot has happened since the last time I visited your blog. Sorry to hear about the break up. It sounds like you are handling it well though. I would try to give advice, but I don't deal with such things very well myself, so I would probably just make matters worse. :/

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  17. A Beer for the Shower31 January 2013 at 07:00

    Rude and immature? Right up my alley. That's hilarious.

    Glad to hear you're making progress, or at least that you think you're making progress. Things will pick up in time.

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  18. Theta^231 January 2013 at 13:09

    If only I knew how to play the trumpet. I would go around doing that at every parade/celebration/party.

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  19. Anonymous31 January 2013 at 18:53

    I am sorry to hear about your breakup hun! Those are never easy. Bad weeks/ months are the reason many of my blogs have taken a funny turn...I need the comic relief!

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  20. D41 February 2013 at 19:11

    Ah dude, I'm a little late. It's good you're getting by, I know it just sucks but you'll be okay, you'll see. Just in time.

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  21. Blue Grumpster5 February 2013 at 14:47

    The video works for me too. Rude... yeah well, so what... It's funny.

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